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Jasper - communications and gnats

Inga kommentarer September 7th, 2009 annette No comments

Eyja i ligghallen Once I had the care of a horse named Jasper. He was a master of the art of communication. When he did not want to play anymore so he refused to walk or throwing of us riders. Could it be any clearer?

Come to think of him today when I by chance came across a book that described the "philosopher" Jaspers and his view that everything is communication. Parts completely with this approach. Communication is an approach to life that requires the presence, wanting to see and take note of what is happening here and now. Not to ignore what is inconvenient, but accept that this is also a part of life. "This goodwill to pass", this will also go over, everything is changing.

The other night when I would take my horse Eyja on a ride so I missed most of the above. Be totally focused on me to ride and did not see any of the things she told me. Eyja have some problem with gnats in the evening, she gets really scared and runs most about and just want to go into the barn again. Now, this happens only when there is really very gnats.

On this particular evening, she stood up in his ligghall. There is a large space in the barn where the horses can come and go as they please to seek shelter inomhus.När I picked her up, I thought of other things and missed all the signals she communicated to me.
Eyja is always a happy and positive creature who likes to come off when you ask her. This evening she went with much reluctance, and she lay down and rolled just outside the stables, which she never usually do. My first thought was colic, has previously had an old horse with that problem.
But no, she stood up and shook a little and followed me in.Efter brushing and other things about the guide to prepare for riding it was the turn of the CORD.
Since Eyja is a friendly lady so she usually lowers his head and turns it against me so that I can easily access to BRAID her, but not this evening.
Instead, she lowers her head down to the floor and hold his little mule against the concrete. She turns not his head towards me. All signals from communicating her resignation and that she has a difficult time. Just at that moment, I am focused on what we find in the riding and record what happens, but I do not take it in and communication fails. I am the culprit, Eyja have tried to show his whole horse creature that tonight she will not attend.
We walk out in the arena but when it's time for uppsittning problems begin. It appears the old "Jasper Horse" into Eyjas guise. She refuses to stand still so I will not play himself. Need help to be "thrown."

Once up on horseback, there is no interaction with the horse. Eyja run like she wants and ignores completely both in the reins, and other help.

She throws herself aside for all the shadows that is, grass and flowers are dangerous dragons that she had run away at all costs.

And at this point occurs when it should not happen. I get really annoyed at this creature who does not have the sense to behave properly. Tougher in his voice, hard by the bridle and tension throughout the body, I try to get her to listen to me.
I go around the arena, I get a number of small insects in the eyes, and suddenly I realize what Eyja tried to communicate to me anyway since I picked her up. It's terribly much black flies this evening.
Her rolling outside the stall, her resignation with a low head on the horse language means that they want to be left alone, her unwillingness to be tränsad.Allt I had missed because I was not present but planned our ridträning in the head.
"Mum, I do not want to be with tonight, please let me out."

Full of sorrow that I missed what this amazing creature tried to tell me over 1 hour, I'll go off and we return to the stables.

I think I'm pretty good at communication, even between the races, has taught me a lesson.

Attendance, attendance, attendance!

All moments and events, communicate with us, but it's so easy to miss. To miss moments and events are missing a part of life, but it happens.

Goodbye

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Irish animals sale

IMG_4143 Well, back home after a fantastic time in Ireland. We had a very special photo coach who took us around to the typical Irish experiences and landscapes. Of course, we would start the day with a real horse auction. I was really looking forward to catching these people and animals in a typical environment. It was very donkeys for sale and of course one wonders why it sold so much ass in a country like Ireland.

Learned that they are used as beasts of burden, among other things, to carry home turf from the large turf fields. Peat is mined and put to dry and small logs. When they are sufficiently dry to burn with the fire, so they are loaded in klövjekorgar the little donkeys who will carry home loads. Some of the donkeys had their foals with and it was really struck by how calm these animals. They were tied to their transport, or lamp posts, and looked calmly around among cars, people and other animals.

These little fölungarna that had just been separated from the mothers was also quiet and watched.

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Then there was the "old men" just as I imagined. Occasionally large beer belly, yes, some had a little extra weight, but they stood in clusters and discussed the animals with their plaid woolen caps on. One of them actually came back and wanted to be photographed and get the image sent to them. IMG_4140 Perhaps he had no pictures of herself, for all I know. But this is how some of them out.

So what we had with us from this experience? I think the feeling of presence and calm was the key. No one ran to get to something else. They were right where they were, captured the moment which of course also reflected in the calm of the animals.

Our animals are like mirrors that reflect what is going on around them. Research has proven that stress, fear, and increased heart rate in humans is contagious and creates the same phenomenon in horses. It probably works on donkeys and other livestock as well. Think that all living beings belong together more than we might imagine today.

But to research the answers to the riddle of life we ​​may be able to train in a quiet communication with our animal friends. To be present and the home itself is spreading good vibes that both ourselves and others feel good by.

Take care!

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The eye is the mirror of the soul

Tindras värld

What I see in you is also in me. Can you see the beauty, wisdom o ch presence in Tindras eye? The soul's mirror. In order to "see" and not just looking to be able to "listen" and not just hear, you will need presence. A mindfulness, the art of observing and inlyssnande without interpreting. A prerequisite for true communication. Can you see the blue sky, forest and field in her eye? Can you feel her presence and attention? Or do you just one horse?

Happy Midsummer!

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Trust is a prerequisite for honest communication

tillit Trust, or to rely on. Trust that each moment has a touch of magic with the possibility of developing and building relationships. A new relationship with myself where I'm willing to listen to what's inside of me, or reliance on that meeting can be good if I open myself to someone else. Keeping Time as if it were a glaskål, ready to be filled with anything but gentle as it is fragile when it breaks.

A lost time will not be again, a loss of trust is difficult to repair. Glass breaks easily when dropped. In Time's meeting, when someone entrusts you his glass bowl handle it with care. "Hold the space"

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Inter Species communication and mindfulness

per-o-hast1 Mindfulness means that we are present and iaktagande of what is happening around us. No opinions, just a calm consideration of a quiet place within ourselves. Horses can help us find the quiet place within ourselves through a silent communication that convey presence. It is an important part when I am working with my horses in what I call everyday riding therapy or horse therapy. To create a communication, we provide all the hectic pace and focus instead on the here and now. The horses love coming to you in a respectful manner if they feel you are at home in yourself. It creates confidence and trust. Often it's also so when we communicate with other people. If we feel that they are present and give us their attention from a calm, then we would like to be more about those people. They make us simply to feel good. In the same way it is with our other pets, they like to feel they can trust us. But even animals of different breeds can communicate and be friends, they meet each other on the same presence and calm. disen-o-smillan-2 Shown here next to, DJ is watching while Smillan eat horse poop.

Yes, our animals with simple expressions to learn a lot both about communication and about life in general. It is important to cooperate and that everyone has their part to be responsible for. Sometimes stabs someone after the whole piece, leaving those who are not as eager to help themselves. The beauty of their interaction is that the next moment as they offer into each other again and everyone gets to be with. They are just if they are really grumpy that they want to keep their trophies for themselves. It is well with us humans.

As we become bitter and just look at what we should have for themselves as soon disappears joy. And then there is perhaps not so much desire to go to new inventions o ideas.

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So finally what is it that our furry friends can share with us? Perhaps the answer is in the pictures that come below.

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One should not butt their bloody than that which can not be changed

smillan-reflekterar1 It is important to make time for reflection

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Be sure to stand firmly on the ground

tindras-skugga

Live so you will not only be a shadow of yourself

Happy holidays!

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Dancing with your Dark Horses

dancing - "From the first moment I walked into a stall, I could understand the anger that the horses put their head movements and lashing tails, confusion and sadness in their eyes as they stood with lowered heads, fear so påtagbar by their way of pushing the tail between the legs. I could also understand the playful utlevelsen in their wild gallop over the fields. I learned to listen to and understand the horses' body language to the point that I was at one with them. I took an oath to be their voice in a world among men. "(Freely translated).

Yes, this can be read on the first page of Chris Irwin's book, "Dancing with your Dark Horses".

Chris is a Canadian trainer, equally skilled at riding western as English, which to interact with the horses and teach all this in a very instructive way.

He and his wife Kathryn have a farm in Alberta in Canada, but also live in Kentucky where Kathryn are involved in saving the former race horses. Chris has traveled the world and taught for about 20 years and was in Holland in September for a clinic / workshop for four days. This was his only visit to Europe this year so I (Annette) and my husband Per drove on vacation / training to Arnhem, Holland for a week in September.

The stables where Chris clinic would remain low for a bit outside the center and we were a little late because we missed a bus. So, when we found the cafeteria where he has already begun, he was at full speed on to show how a relaxed horse should look like, illustrating by bending her riding crop.

Chris key message is balance, strength (inner) and awareness. He calls it "non-resistance bonding process," a unity of both parties without coercion. This is something we need to develop if we want to be with horses that are happy and enjoy life. As Chris puts it, "to ride, you can learn, but to understand and interact with the horse of both joy, require an inner awareness and presence in the relationship.

Once inside the indoor arena so did those who had horses with them to start working from the ground with the horses in the halter. Quite a wild stallion, who, incidentally, was trained for the Olympics in dressage, created some confusion when he completely ignored the math, Chris and the other in the arena. He had to leave us for a while and Chris then worked alone with him in a round-paddock. The colt was quite aggressive with Chris, but after several minutes of exercise without harsh words or whips tracked him so well in the revolt, the stallion that is.

chris Well, back to the paddock and the other participants. According to Chris is a horse with raised head a horse full of stress and a lot of adrenaline, so step 1 is always to get the horse's head in the "level". That is, it must have its head in a fairly straight line from the withers. So to get where we need to have a safe horse and we need ourselves to be present in what we do. We practiced setting boundaries for the horses, they did not bow their heads into us, and not lose presence by ignoring us.

Here it is to imagine a river as a metaphor. River edges are talking about the river where it can drain, but they do not draw in the river to get it to turn and push it to go away. So mote it be when we are with our horses. Our hands can tell the horse where it can not go, this applies both to the sides and front and rear. We select the external borders and the horse learns where it can be and then feel safe and want to cooperate.

Weight Support groups are extremely important and reins are used as little as possible. When the horse is calm, you ride forth from your inner center, your power center located at your navel. Your belly button should always be pointed in the direction of the horse's ears and where you want it to go. You think and feel how your own power and energy from the navel lift your horse forward. The legs hang loose and only used at the right moment. Your influence must be given when the horse lifts its hind leg to move. Otherwise, you create resistance. Another interesting angle that Chris is working from what he calls "counterbend". Assume that the horse is set out as you ride on a volt. Something we certainly recognize many of us. We try to bend the horse right by taking the reins, and bend around the inside leg, and so on. According to Chris breeds that only resistance from the horse, you might solve it once, but it comes back again and again.

To interact with the horse and get the security we need in a situation like that think that it is outside, will be "new Inside" because the horse is bent in the wrong direction. Ride the horse through the bend for ytterskänkeln, now is your new inner grip. You can anticipate that the horse is bending the wrong way by you intentionally use your ytterskänkel the inner grip before you get to a bend. The horse will shortly want to choose to go right without you using any coercion. Since this is less laborious.

So, a very abbreviated finish. If you are using exercises can get the horse to realize that you are smarter "horse", by getting it to want to cooperate without coercion and that you are currently in the relationship with the horse and rider from your "inner power center", you will have a beautiful horse that carries the right and want to please you. What we also got to see samples of participants' horses.

Here is a blend of psychology and ridlära at its best. We were both very influenced by the strength that is in Chris's message. The problems arise naturally when you come home and want to try everything on their own horses. They're a little confused at first, and part of the training first go backward before you see results. But Eyja (horse) and I can now come to a halt in agreement and can ride short tolt without hope and bounce, this is largely Malin Gustavsson merit who patiently supported and listened to all new proposals and excuses, and now before the winter rest, it has thus succeeded.

Per looks like a proud Vikings on his horse, curious to test and carefully supervised by Malin. We have two movies with Chris, one where he goes through landscaping, the weight of the horse does not "give you the finger" as he calls it. And a movie where he is very pedagogical go through more carefully what I have briefly described. Me and Per invite like a movie night in the spring with a talk and refreshments, if interested.

I (Annette) has been working for about 12 years with groups and individuals together with horses to help them develop an inner presence "awareness" and a life more in balance. Many of my clients have severe reactions to stress and work with the horses makes noticeable progress faster. But sometimes it's lighter, for example, where we will teach workshops to communicate better with the help of exercises with the horses. There are so thrilled to see how the horses respond to people's needs, there is so much more with our horses than just riding.

That I and Per went to Chris was partly due to my work and collaboration with an American therapist, Barbara Rector, who was also my supervisor at work with horses. My approach is partly taken from Barbara's "Adventure in Awareness". But it is also influenced by my 1-year training with Klaus Ferdinand Hempfling (Dance with horses).

The meeting with Chris and his view of horses and riding was another piece of a puzzle that I do not know how it finally looks like.

As has been involved and worked with several groups, and self-involved with his old management team in team-building with the support of the horses. He liked the idea of ​​combined vacation and horses so it took off to the beautiful Arnhem which we warmly recommend. Urvacker town, restaurants everywhere, and amazingly good beer. Then long horse-days at this - what more could you want.

Greetings from Annette

PS! All the above have websites online if you want to read more.

http://www.chrisirwin.com/
http://www.adventureinawareness.net/
http://www.hempfling.com/

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