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Swan Lake

Inga kommentarer November 5th, 2009 annette No comments
Svansjön Quo Vadis was a bit hard but important. What if we all are disguised princes and princesses? The good kind that is written about in fairy tales. I do not mean physically but more on a spiritual level.
Sleep well!
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Quo Vadis - Where do you go?

Inga kommentarer November 4th, 2009 annette No comments
Some have stopped going. It is an insult to life itself. We need to be free to move without being fettered by the haves, social conditioning, and habits. So, what can help us continue to go?
Will and power of thought. Fill your empty shoe and move on, and if you are asked Quo Vadis?
Perhaps because the answer to where my longing leads me. Quo Vadis
Probably there is more to life than eating, sleeping and working, well, actually outside the TV world as well. Plato describes in his "Republic" a group of people living in his cave. The shadows like firelight gives the walls of the cave people think is the real world. When someone then it ends up outside the cave, and describes a different world, no one believes in this.
So I sometimes experience our present time with TV viewing. People live their lives in TV caves and stop going, stop longing. We need to let ourselves be caught by the passion, nature, culture, music and insights that lead to happiness and laughter. Wake up the soul and take back their lives. Become a director in your life and play all the roles well that you choose to get. Refuse to be defeated by the haves, tables, laziness and the cultural shackles. Go where your desires lead you!
Quo Vadis?
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The brain would like to have pleasurable experiences

1 kommentar October 6th, 2009 annette a comment
Disen vill ha kul-1 Art Life sounds like a beautiful word. To live as a work of art. Should mean that the life and lowing may look very different depending on the viewer. What did the artist express? Who made the painting and why? Some kind of harmony is important in any work of art, balance of angles or lighting or objects. The same applies to the art of living, art of living contains balance. Both for the living work of art and the viewer. Simply put, it would probably be called "live what you preach." That others can share your artwork and be inspired. Inspired to what? For pleasure, play and joy, I would probably respond. It is alldelses too many demands and ok to wear in life and pleasurable experiences may not always be the place they need. The brain likes to have fun, practice allows us to be as old antiques. We stand in a corner and ponds again. The same corner for life. Tonight we listened to a concert at her son's school. Fantastic! Imagine what fun to just sit still for a moment in the foreign environment and listen to music that you do not know in advance how it looks. The brain Amar himself like a cat in the sun, pleasure and desire.
Earlier today when I walked the dogs out in the paddock so aroused their play, the desire to play in our DJ Irish pony. Spontaneous, not planned as for dogs and horses around with each other. Jumped, chased each other and chasing sticks. The last was the only dog ​​thing. DJ could not quite understand that he would chase the dogs and take the stick away from them. But he was delighted and jumped in anyway.
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Perhaps it is in the art of living? Jump around and be happy even if you do not always know the rules of the game of life. The important rules that one must not forget is probably about love, respect and challenges. Otherwise, it is probably free to jump in as much as you want.
Disen o Stella busar-1
So, create your own pleasurable art of living, have fun and pleasure as often as you can and jump on.
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Right or wrong day Haddebo use

3 kommentarer October 3rd, 2009 annette 3 comments
Haddebo-1 Did a strange day a while back. Some strange days leave no impression they're just strange or inconsistent in any way. But this day is stuck in the experience repository. Me and some family members were out looking up where our ancestors were born and lived for a period of life. Ended up near Orebro and it was supposed to take off in Hjortkvarn against Haddebo use. But for some reason, we never Hjortkvarn but was almost in Orebro when we turned. A few kilometers later coming back, it was suddenly Haddebo on a sign. The road sign pointing out was about 6 km out into the woods. We were convinced we were lost. It started getting dark and we were really hungry, but where to find places to eat in the woods on a weekday afternoon. But then suddenly, as in a revelation, or possibly a hallucination, open forest and a few worn-out houses lining the road. In front of one house is a sign with B & B and restaurant. Looks, however, lit up all over and possibly abandoned, a little eerie at dusk. We stopped and wondered if we wanted to determine if there was food inside the walls, we were famished by now.
While we are thinking so appears a woman in the doorway. She was waving to us to come, no doubt, we leave the car.
Kidding with one of the family members that it is like in the song Hotel California, "You can check in any time you want but you-can never leave."
Once inside the house, we learn that we can eat soup as an appetizer and served salmon today. Sounds tempting, we say yes to the offer. Will then no one has that much cash. Accustomed to the big city so we have a wide variety of credit cards but get money. Keeper of the sacred gardens-1
When we recognize the prikära situation of the hostess as she just smiles kindly and says it's okay. We can deposit money into their account when we come home again. They rely on people that she expresses herself. Already it gets weird, the restaurant in the city would put forward such an offer.
The chef comes and introduces himself as Frank, and the woman's name is Chris. The couple is from Holland and have abandoned their old professions for a fresh start in a strange land and to follow the soul's enticements.
Chris takes us around the display in the old house and tell you all about it, she shows us the herb garden and greenhouse, where we choose ingredients. Frank turns out to be a musician and takes out his guitar for hours coffetime-1 than cooked a delicious dinner. He interprets Cornelius Wreeswijk in both Swedish and Dutch. Chris rests while on a couch in the room where we sit and eat.
We have found a respite in the universe where time seems to have stopped. It feels weird, but amazing, to sit in this old house and enjoy music and food with people who feel like they were my friends for ages. The sense of unreality is with us for several days after. But then I had exchanges with Frank and Chris via email so I know they really are.
Definitely recommended a visit to their house White grovel in Haddebo use www.Vitakrala.se
When I decided to take some photos that was not the weather on my side. Complained to Chris that it was the wrong day. Her answer was that it was exact right day and right place. Yes, that's it really, there's probably no wrong days.
Nettan
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I think, therefore I exist

Inga kommentarer September 8th, 2009 annette No comments
Early morning at the breakfast table where everyone is tired. Someone starts with a comment about what is the meaning of life, or meaning in life. Soon, the existential questions far more than anyone can answer. It continues something like this: "How do I know that I live? What if I do not really exist? Perhaps this is all a dream, a collective universal experience."
This is a little difficult to decide whether to take early morning when the duties of waiting. The duties which we all play different roles and are expected to do well whether it's a drama, a comedy or possibly a thriller. Pondering a while later when I suffer through the day's first drama, a dentist. Yes, I play the role of the skilled patient well. Do as I told, yawns, washes and keep calm.
What if it's the meaning of life? To perform the role you have chosen the best way. With all his energy and passion to create a large and broad role of records and enjoy the various experiences. Perhaps you can find then also their purpose in life.
My motto in life after this day is a small distortion of Descartes' Cogito, ergo sum "
I ride therefore I am!

 

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The picture shows Eyja and I am an early spring day, but the midges
 

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Jasper - communications and gnats

Inga kommentarer September 7th, 2009 annette No comments

Eyja i ligghallen Once I had the care of a horse named Jasper. He was a master of the art of communication. When he did not want to play anymore so he refused to walk or throwing of us riders. Could it be any clearer?

Come to think of him today when I by chance came across a book that described the "philosopher" Jaspers and his view that everything is communication. Parts completely with this approach. Communication is an approach to life that requires the presence, wanting to see and take note of what is happening here and now. Not to ignore what is inconvenient, but accept that this is also a part of life. "This goodwill to pass", this will also go over, everything is changing.

The other night when I would take my horse Eyja on a ride so I missed most of the above. Be totally focused on me to ride and did not see any of the things she told me. Eyja have some problem with gnats in the evening, she gets really scared and runs most about and just want to go into the barn again. Now, this happens only when there is really very gnats.

On this particular evening, she stood up in his ligghall. There is a large space in the barn where the horses can come and go as they please to seek shelter inomhus.När I picked her up, I thought of other things and missed all the signals she communicated to me.
Eyja is always a happy and positive creature who likes to come off when you ask her. This evening she went with much reluctance, and she lay down and rolled just outside the stables, which she never usually do. My first thought was colic, has previously had an old horse with that problem.
But no, she stood up and shook a little and followed me in.Efter brushing and other things about the guide to prepare for riding it was the turn of the CORD.
Since Eyja is a friendly lady so she usually lowers his head and turns it against me so that I can easily access to BRAID her, but not this evening.
Instead, she lowers her head down to the floor and hold his little mule against the concrete. She turns not his head towards me. All signals from communicating her resignation and that she has a difficult time. Just at that moment, I am focused on what we find in the riding and record what happens, but I do not take it in and communication fails. I am the culprit, Eyja have tried to show his whole horse creature that tonight she will not attend.
We walk out in the arena but when it's time for uppsittning problems begin. It appears the old "Jasper Horse" into Eyjas guise. She refuses to stand still so I will not play himself. Need help to be "thrown."

Once up on horseback, there is no interaction with the horse. Eyja run like she wants and ignores completely both in the reins, and other help.

She throws herself aside for all the shadows that is, grass and flowers are dangerous dragons that she had run away at all costs.

And at this point occurs when it should not happen. I get really annoyed at this creature who does not have the sense to behave properly. Tougher in his voice, hard by the bridle and tension throughout the body, I try to get her to listen to me.
I go around the arena, I get a number of small insects in the eyes, and suddenly I realize what Eyja tried to communicate to me anyway since I picked her up. It's terribly much black flies this evening.
Her rolling outside the stall, her resignation with a low head on the horse language means that they want to be left alone, her unwillingness to be tränsad.Allt I had missed because I was not present but planned our ridträning in the head.
"Mum, I do not want to be with tonight, please let me out."

Full of sorrow that I missed what this amazing creature tried to tell me over 1 hour, I'll go off and we return to the stables.

I think I'm pretty good at communication, even between the races, has taught me a lesson.

Attendance, attendance, attendance!

All moments and events, communicate with us, but it's so easy to miss. To miss moments and events are missing a part of life, but it happens.

Goodbye

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Europe and the white bull

According to Greek mythology was the princess Europa abducted by Zeus who transformed himself into a white bull. He is said to have grazed on a meadow where the princess was staying and managed to get her to sit on his back. Europe was very fond of the beautiful bull, and enjoyed sitting on his back. After a while, so did the disguised Zeus by at full speed into the sea, and stopped finally in Crete. There, he transformed himself to God again. He married the Europe, The Irish Bull-1 received a number of sons together.

Maybe Zeus looked like this Irish fella who also were grazing in a meadow high above the sea. What if there was someone disguised as Irish god who would soon reveal his true self. Life must somehow have been more exciting with the ancient myths and sagas. Imagine sitting an enchanted evening at a live fire and hear the Bard MAKE POETRY on Irish Bulls, while the audience listens attentively. The art of communicating stories and stories will soon be extinct, have the time to listen. But the legends and myths are carriers of knowledge and we humans may need to benefit from them in a way that speaks beyond our logical ego. The latter is often said that fairy tales and myths are silly and uninteresting, I know what reality looks like, right?

Myths allow us to interpret life events from other perspectives. They enable us to identify with different personalities and heroes, to see that the impossible is possible. Stories of various kinds have always acted as a common thread that kept cultures and families together through history. I think we need to find the narrative again. Take the time to listen to others' stories and take the time to create our own. The ability to sit still and listen, reflect and process is good for our wellbeing, and sometimes necessary for our identity.
Rediscover the old myths and tell them of your surroundings. Find stories with lots of heroes and heroines that we can all identify with in a pinch. We can begin to act

"As if" we could handle our situations in life just as our heroes / heroines.

To think and act in that way often leads to an attitude and behavioral change that can make the impossible, possible.
So out of all the princes and princesses, pirates and witches, magic animals and scary beings. They all have something to tell us.

"Once upon a time ........"

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The Bumble Bee - lurch in Ireland

During our great hiking and photography trip to Ireland, that has, among other things, that I was stung by a Bumblebee. We, Peter and I had walked for hours over high mountains and muddy moors and barely seen any animals or insects. I had the same experience the previous day and commented that our friend photographer Michael.

That was none of the men who responded directly to my comments regarding this, but I felt that it was very quiet but flies, mosquitoes, birds or other living things as beetles and so on.

This was also my feeling when we just come down from a hefty steep and approached the flat land again. I shared with you my experience of Per and said something like this. "This country, Ireland, is so incredibly beautiful, but it gives the impression of unreality and lifelessness, but animals and other insects."

Now it just so happens that there were some cows, sheep and horses grazed on the hills where we went, but the absence of birdsong was palpable. I could barely communicate Per my thoughts before nature fought back.

From nowhere came a Bumblebee with a focus on my left eye. It came at full speed and stung me just below the eye, I did not have time to squeeze it or anything. Possibly it was a wink when I shut the eye that caused it to stick to. Only managed to see some of the furry body. And now I know that Bumble bees sting, they do not burn.

Bumblebee-1 The funny thing was that after this incident I became aware of birds in the bushes, small butterflies and other things that eluded me before.

I joked that maybe it was the little bumblebee my totem animal that would teach me an experience, to see.

Now it was a little strange at first because I could hardly see anything during the day when the eye became swollen again.

Two insights came to me omedlbart, Ireland is not in the absence of bugs, and to our experience, sometimes suddenly and in a way that we can not imagine.

After we got home, I have become obsessed with photographing Bumblebees. What amazing little creatures they are. When you see them working as a messenger of life force, that is, pollen from one plant to another, then you understand that there is much we do not understand.

This little friend next is just covered with tiny pollen grains.

If this is so that bumblebees are small totem animal as they can probably find the moderator communicate to us humans?

Maybe they would say something like, "Hey there, just you yes, how would it be if you stopped for a moment in life and looked around you?

How would it be if you took your time to smell a flower, experience aura and enjoy its beauty?

Perhaps when you have time to taste the nectar of life. Perhaps you then see that we are connected somehow. That we all have our duties to play in the big picture to work. "

Do not know what insights a bumblebee possess but maybe it has some social-psychological skills as well so maybe it would continue the conversation with us like this.

"Think about what you carry from one flower to another. Carry only what is healthy and that contributes to that other flowers can bloom. Some misery sticks to you, paste perhaps permanent, but if you shake the it disappears. That you bring from a flower contains the power to another flower. pollinate your environment with what is good and vital. "

The bumblebee has been an important space in my life. Bumblebee is written always with a capital T in the future.

Wish you a good pollination!

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Spajo communicates

Has today met with some of the women in the family. Very interesting discussions that led the tanks on to historic times. War and military, the Berlin wall creation, and the wires back even long before this time.

The conversation came to be about great-grandmother Helena. A wise woman who knew a lot and are building the people turned to when they had problems. She was a trusted creature who had to take care of both physical harm, mental åkommar, and handling of those who died and who would be prepared. According to the story, waiting for all of what Helen had to say. She is said to have been a very gentle person with a lot of warmth and empathy for his fellow man. Her husband, August, and Helena were both 96 years. Many of those years they lived together as married. According to the women of the family so they both beamed and August always wanted to hear Helen's viewpoint before any decision would be taken on any subject. Amazing is that the two, until the day one died, always thanked each other for the day they had together and wished each other good night with respect and reverence. Unfortunately they both died the same year I was born and I never got the opportunity to know them.

What does this have to do with communication?

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Yes, of course I wonder what is it that makes some people get other people's confidence when they would not be noticed themselves. What is it that they radiate and communicate to those around you?

Surely we can find several social psychological explanations, but I do not think that's enough. There is something more that some people are giving out something that speaks to our innermost self and create a trust. Maybe it's the same as the animal a time and that means that many prefer the animals in front of the people they are not comfortable with.

The summary is to me the same, communication is something much deeper, more sophisticated and subtle than we have a clue. Every moment and experience communicating with us, as well as any relationship.

After many hours talking about old times thought aunt's dog Spajo to'd had enough. Certainly, he sat beside her and began beating on her arm with his paw. As this was not enough as it was followed by a number called must. It was his time to go for a walk, just as important to him as listening over the long time that people around him had talked.

Everything has its time, you just have to be alert to the signals sent to us.

Spajo was as beautiful as the picture when he informed us that now was the time for evening walk.

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"We exist only when we are moving"

4 kommentarer August 18th, 2009 annette 4 comments

Smillan o stormen-1 The above is according to sources familiar with a quote from Sätre. At a jog with the man and the dogs the other day, we felt quite strongly that we existed. Dogs Smillan and Stella had decided that it was homesickness that mattered. This meant tempo all the time, no stopping to smell the other dog pees, track activities, or other small pauses. We, Per and me, wondering if the dogs are communicating when they pull mum o dad hills. Thank god for big strong Labradors. Maybe they talk to each other about how to set up the race, it looks anyway so when they look at each other and then it's full speed.

Animals can be assets in many areas, both for the company as running track. Read an article in the local newspaper a few days ago that attempts should be made with more dogs for the elderly. I think it's quite obvious that people and animals belong together even though I can understand that people with allergies may have a difficult time. Dogs and horses are also used a lot in various therapeutic contexts. Here with us is the most horses that stand for this. Our wild dogs are too young and unruly yet.

In the picture Smillan actually accepted a 'sit o stay on ", despite rumbling thunder. So little hope maybe there is. Communication between the races is fantastic when it works.

Now we're going out and exist for a while before it comes time for the Sandman

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